I am wondering…

I am wondering…

Do boys worry about keeping their girls happy, too?


8 thoughts on “I am wondering…

  1. Frankly, I truly believe that boys,when they really fall, more often than not, fall harder than their respective partners. I don’t know why, but to offer my amateur view, I think it’s because they are wired to only commit once. Once they are done with their commitment phobic years and want to settle down, if they get their heart broken then, they feel it immensely. So they are more likely to keep their girls happy and content within the relationship to avoid having their hearts broken by someone they see a future with. But this of course only applies to those guys who are really into the girl, not the assholes (pardon me language) who are in it for the fun! But in some utopia where both people are equally in love with each other, I hope they are both striving to keep each other happy 🙂

    1. I agree that it takes longer for boys to get to the point where they are ready to commit, but then they commit completely.

      Also, I think that when boys get their heart broken, they are much more likely not to try again because they don’t want to revisit that level of hurt.
      When my Loverman got married to his wife, he had just been dumped by his “baby-momma” and was going through something similar to a “completely broken” feeling. He got married for comfort and security instead of love — because he didn’t want to give anyone that much of himself ever again. He used to tell me all the time that he would never let another girl 100% into his heart again… But after 4 1/2 years, I think I am at about 98% 😉

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