I have always been afraid to stick something up my ass. Like a phobia! I could go into details here, but I think you can mostly understand: I was raised as a prude and poop is gross!
That being said, it was not as bad as I thought it would be.Yay! Granted, I did get the “starter model”, but it actually felt kind of nice.
Let me set the scene…
This morning I had in my new ben wa balls and I was playing with my vibe and thought, Aw, what the hell?! I have the day off, I will just spend the morning fucking myself silly (thanks for the inspiration, Ann). If I don’t like how the butt plug feels, I can take it right out, fuck myself some more and forget about it.
It turns out that I liked it. At least I like it while I have my vibe and the balls inside at the same time!
I felt the vibrations all the way up my spine and, when I moved the vibe to my clit, my entire body shook in an all-over, completely satisfying self-made orgasm! I had a hard time holding back my moaning and, I usually do not make any noise while masturbating.
When I finished cumming, I just laid there in bed thinking, How do I bring this up with my sexy Loverman?
Hmmm…???
Smitten with Him 
I’m dying to try both the balls and the plug!
I like the balls, but they are not as awesome as I expected. Maybe I will try the more ‘advanced’ ones when I have some spare change.
🙂
I’m still working in upgrading my vibrators!
Just ask. Yes it may be the simple way but communication is everything right?
🙂 Exactly, but he doesn’t like trying new things sexually. But you are 100% right: it can’t hurt to ask.
You might be surprised. ☺️
Once you explain how amazing the sensations can be, it shouldn’t be any issue.
Thank you for the encouragement! However, thinking about doing it and actually doing it are two completely different things 🙂
Well, then just tie him down, and tell him to relax. 😀
I’d suggest bringing this up over a bottle of wine (or whatever your drink of choice). Maybe start off the conversation with something else sexual, then tell him how good your orgasm was. He might be curious to see it for himself…
Thank you! Or I could just do what Musclehead says and tie him down 😉
You’re welcome?!
😀
I am with a guy right now who enjoys ass play (his ass). I am becoming an “expert,” of sorts, in prostate massage and his orgasms are super intense when I’m sucking him off and fingering him at the same time. I don’t know how we got there (maybe my finger lost its way one encounter?!) but we did and while I don’t do it to him every encounter, whenever I do it just leaves him completely spent. And a little grateful, too. 😉