Smitten with Him

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A Contract?

on March 15, 2016

In the midst of all our talking last week, I received the following note from Mick (originally, I think he sent it as a joke):

Here’s an interesting ad I saw on craigslist…

BDSM Slave seeks Master or Daddy

Nature of the relationship

Sexual slavery is a consensual exchange of power by the submissive to the dominant, though the scope of the surrender of discretion may be limited and may be withdrawn at any time.

The types of activities that the sex slave may be expected to perform are usually defined in advance and sometimes spelled out in a slave contract, a document that outlines the desires, limits, and expectations of the parties. The sex slave is often expected to perform sexually, though typically many relationship-oriented dynamics are also clearly negotiated, including clothing, diet, speech restrictions, household affairs and schedules, though the details may be left to the master or mistress. Typically outlined are clear expectations of whether the couple will be monogamous or polyamorous, and if there would be permission or expectation of sexual interaction with other people. Otherwise, a sex slave may be expected to perform many of the same functions that are expected of a slave/submissive, including wearing very revealing clothes, being shared, wearing a slave collar or leash, S&M activities, or bondage.

A Master & slave relationship is normally a long-term relationship, comparable in duration to ‘normal relationships’ whereas a Dominant – submissive relationship could be of a similar duration or shorter from a few minutes, as in a scene. Depending on their contract, a sex slave may be traded by the master, facilitated by sex club events, personals in BDSM interest magazines or internet based social networks. Commonly, a slave is also said to be a collared slave, though not every slave wears a physical slave collar.

A slave who has satisfied the duration of the negotiated time of service is expected to be released, unless a new duration of service is negotiated.

A slave may at any time withdraw consent to the relationship; effectively nullifying the slave relationship.

My response to him was, “Wanna write me up a contract right quick?

Sure thing! You can sign Thursday.

Okay 😉


5 responses to “A Contract?

  1. Cheeky says:

    Uh…yeah. I think I know too much to take this lightly. I hope he is joking, hon, because that’s kind of a pansy ass way of asking for this kind of dynamic. (if that’s what he was doing) But I’m still into Mick for you. Just curious to see where this is going. ❤️

    • smitten says:

      It was totally a joke. We talk about all the things stated in the “contracts”. But it was good for us both to look around and see what all is out there. It’s sparked a couple of interesting conversations between us….

      I think I would have liked to have a contract with Alaska, though. Something to keep me safe and to give me some security…

      • Cheeky says:

        I started reading about Alaska when Cinn wrote about him on her blog. I pretty much have wanted to punch him in his balls since that post. If there ever was a contract with him, that should’ve been one of his consequences. “Cheeky will punch Alaska’s balls for any infraction of contract. Or she will hire someone to do it and make it look like an accident.” (however that would play out) lol
        Glad you and Mick are having fun. 😃

        • smitten says:

          ROFLMAO!!! Awesome comment!! I will add that clause into the pretend contract I’ve been building in my head!
          FYI – you might not want to read Thursday’s upcoming post…

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