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Question RE: Not That Into You

on November 5, 2016


When you aren’t interested in someone, is there a way to say so without hurting their feelings?

10 responses to “Question RE: Not That Into You

  1. To a point, sure. Depends how honest you want to be.

  2. BallsyBilly says:

    What a cute picture. Says a lot
    All a person can do is be honest and up front. An old cliche says”The truth will set you free”
    It may hurt but hurt feelings can heal!

  3. dcp65 says:

    And I think you have to balance ‘short-term’ hurt … which we all find uncomfortable against ‘long term’ hurt which I think would be more corrosive

    There are kind ways to say no xx

  4. Yes, better to be upfront an honest and set the records straight before the other person develops feelings deeper than he/she should…I would like that, personally

  5. Cinn says:

    I prefer a simple” I’m sorry but I don’t feel a romantic connection here”
    I stick to what I’d want if the situation were reversed

    • smitten says:

      Thank you for that wisdom, Cinn! That’s a very good way. I’ve read that in one of your posts before, I think…

      I don’t know what I would want someone to say to me. I think I’d want to know more…

      Xox ❤

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