So…
If you were in a serous relationship with a guy for 16 months and just found out that he’s known he had another child since last Father’s Day, would it bother you? (she’s 14 – so he wasn’t cheating or anything)
If so, how would you handle it?
If not, why didn’t it bother you?
Smitten with Him 
Guess he was processing it himself?
Perfect answer! Thank you!
My initial reaction would be that he should have told you before now. But, he may have been worried that he would lose you (we can tell ourselves crazy stories) if you knew. Probably just needed time to get comfortable with his new reality.
Thank you, Michael. That’s pretty much how it was. Initially I was hurt because he didn’t share something so important with me.
Agree with the other posters. Maybe just needed the right time to tell you. Now it’s up to you to process this new information. Good luck!
Thank you for saying. You’re totally right!