I wanted to like this guy, too.
I wanted to figure out a name for him and tell you about him here.
Maybe I was too hard on him. He seemed genuinely sorry.
I did keep his number…
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I wanted to like this guy, too.
I wanted to figure out a name for him and tell you about him here.
Maybe I was too hard on him. He seemed genuinely sorry.
I did keep his number…
Smitten with Him 
Wow. What a twisty snake!
Totally! I can’t believe these dudes… *smh* but I’m much better at telling them to pack dirt.
So he’s wasted your time twice before? Did you write about him before? I’m going to check out your blog after I reply to this but all I’m going to say is trust your instincts! ALWAYS. Wow he really put effort in trying to convince you he’s sorry but I don’t get why it’s SOOOOO hard to send ONE text!
I haven’t written about him. I wanted to, because we connected well and he is a good communicator.
This was back in March and I DID call him back at the end of July – only to be sat on the back burner again for 3 more months. He’s too busy with his kids, his rock bands and also his new puppy :-O
Hey, I’d vote for giving him one more chance (although I have no idea how much time passed since your first date). Sounds like you did click with him. Be skeptical, but think of it as another first date. Chances are at least as good, don’t you think?
This was back in March and I DID give him another chance back at the end of July – only to be sat on the back burner again for 3 more months. He’s too busy with his kids, his rock bands and also his new puppy :-O
It also turned out he was married (separated, but still)… Apparently his wife lives in Atlanta and has made the choice not to be present in their childrens’ life 😦
First Off – know that I’m in the sucker category – I thought he was pretty wise to understand what he did wrong and very willing to clearly admit his mistakes which is leap years ahead of my experience. You telling him exactly what you felt and denying to meet up because of it – Did set the standard, which he got. I admire your strength. He should have texted you. If he was a top shelf ass – he would deny any wrong doing as if you had a problem.
I have to admit one thing – I do like how he quickly identified everything – he stated things willingly and quickly – there’s a brain in there. I love brains.
Yeah, I was super sad. But it also turned out he was married (separated, but still)…
He got 3 strikes:
1. He’s married
2. He has 2 little kids
3. He’s a musician in multiple bands
Those are total no-gos for me!
OH With me, the 2 kids would completely work in his favor if he’s a good dad but the other two – you might as well go get nail gun and turn it on yourself for 5 minutes just to get it all over with!
Damn
LOL! FOR SURE!!! The nail gun would probably hurt less!! Hahahahah!!!!
It would DEFINITELY be less of a headache!
I don’t like the fact that he said that he finally got it after you set the standard. So does this mean his first “go to” behaviour is to leave women feeling ignored and just use them until they set some other kind of standard? This is not the kind of man anyone should want. If he was such a stand up guy he would demonstrate that behaviour from day one. Yes people get busy and make mistakes but you already gave him a second chance and he blew it.
Love it! That’s how I see it!
I’m learning slowly how not to put up with shitty treatment. But that’s all I seem to attract 😦