Smitten with Him

grown-up stuff happens here sometimes


Here I am.

Just Me.

Someone else’s married woman who thought she had fallen in love with someone else’s married man.

Now I’m divorced and the man who I thought was My Truest Love is no longer a part of my life.

I am struggling to find a new path…


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33 responses to “About

  1. eroticexploration says:

    Sounds like a tough journey; I hope being able to write about it helps.

    • Thank you for that! I think I am just hoping that someone out there will be able to offer me the magical answer 😉 It’s like having a personal journal that I bring in to therapy and have people analyze it and give their opinion.

      I LOVE your blog!

  2. Recovering Wayward says:

    Found your blog. I am a former cheating spouse. I look forward to reading your posts.

    • 🙂 Thanks for the follow 🙂
      I don’t think I will be a “former cheater” for a while. At least not until I find a way to get out of my problem marriage without any MORE problems.
      I can’t say that I am proud if it, either, but it gives me some light and something to look forward to. Thank you!

      • Recovering Wayward says:

        Each one of our stories are different, even though the world would rather just write us off as the worst humans since Hitler — one giant, reviled stew of selfish humanity. You and I know differently. I’ve learned so much about the subject from blogging and from reading others’ blogs.

  3. secretthots says:

    Thanks so much for the follow! New to the blogging scene and still figuring it all out so, your encouragement is so appreciated… and the award, wow, thank you very much. That is so humbling and I’m excited to share a joy for delicious things. 🙂 Once I know how to link and all that jazz, I’ll be sure to spread the news. xo

    • secretthots says:

      I’m sorry I haven’t posted the award stuff yet… I just don’t follow that many blogs/ have time to read online so, I haven’t really had anyone to pass the award on to and I haven’t had the spare time to learn all that I need to do to make it happen. I’m sure it’s easy but I’m technologically challenged. I haven’t forgotten but it will be a little while before I have a bit of time to do it. Please know that I am grateful and I do look forward to sharing the good news soon! 🙂 Lola xo

  4. rgonaut says:

    Hi Smitten! I nominated you for a Liebster award!

  5. Hey there,

    Thank you for supporting me. Sometimes things happen and take us to a different path in life. I’ll be supporting and following you, This place is a safe floor space ☺

    Your friend,

  6. Anonymous says:

    Thanks for writing. I’m new to anonymous blogging. Still have to tell my story more completely, but it is refreshing to hear yours. I’m going to try to catch up and keep up. Thanks again.

  7. newbloggycat says:

    Hello there, I think your blog is awesome and I have nominated you for the Liebster Award. Here’s the link:
    Congrats! *(^____^)*

  8. Ganesh says:

    Nice and interesting blog! Thanks for following “Known is a drop, Unknown is an Ocean”. 🙂

  9. secretthots says:

    Hi, I’m sorry that I never got to figure out how to post the award and unfortunately, my beautiful blog’s now been deactivated. I’m only here momentarily until I make a permanent switch to 🙂 I hope it’ll be up and running in the next couple of weeks. I also hope there’s a way for us to still remain connected (I’m on such a steep learning curve here in bloggy wog land!). Thanks for your encouragement – I wish you only the very best!

    Lola xo

  10. ashestoohope says:

    Hoping in reading your blog with help me with dealing with my husbands affair by giving insight from you.

  11. teasingnotions says:

    I am compelled to follow your blog, interesting commentary in here that I am certainly cognizant of in my own life … take care – thanks for your visit

  12. Oh dear. I hope everything is okay. Love and positive energy from me to you! Take care of yourself x

    • XO! Thanks. Everything is okay. This is just my story. (The previous version of my “about” was much different. Things just changed for me last November.)
      Every day is a challenge from which we must learn.
      Right now I am having some growing pains. I’m probably growing more and faster than I ever have emotionally.
      Life can really smack you in the face, you know? And if I don’t learn something from it, I’m just gonna get smacked the same way all over again next time! (and not in the good/fun way 😉 )

      Thanks for the positive energy ❤ and reaching out to me. It means a lot 😀

  13. Hello, thank you for your visit, your about page does create intrigue … 🙂

  14. Hello Smitten,

    Firstly, I clicked on your profile name and wanted to read your blog, cause of the name – “Walking with her” meets “Smitten with him”. Two different hers and hims obviously, but had a nice ring to it.
    I love the way you describe things and I can feel your thoughts through your words. I miss her very much and I was not even her boyfriend at any point in time, I can imagine the pain you are going through. But you seem to carry it off well, at least from the sound of your words. Keep writing! Hope you have a wonderful life ahead….


    • smitten says:

      What a cool connection! Thank you for your kind words 😀 Healing is a process. There are still days when I feel half of my self is gone, but I always give him too much credit! He was a total jerk to me and used up all my money. And he had/s no remorse…

      Thanks again!

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