Smitten with Him

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Sex Lies

(I drafted this some time last summer with the intent of filling in all the dot-dot-dots, but I think I like it better this way… ūüėČ )

Sex can be deceitful

If you have sex too early…

If you have sex too late…

If you only have sex…

If you never have sex…

Sexual energy builds tension but it also adds tension…

Yet the intimacy of it is vital

To feel the touch of another…

To combine with another soul…

It¬†replenishes one’s self…

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Self-Impressions

from Don't You Dream Impossible Things?

from: Don’t You Dream Impossible Things?

My most recent one night hook-up really threw me for a loop.

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Emotional vs Physical Intimacy: Interchangeable or Interdependent?

Heart

One thing I noticed¬†recently about my relationship with¬†Mick is I don’t feel a compulsive need to be having sex with him all of the time we are together. In fact, my actual sexual libido is almost non-existent. I’m rarely horny any more. That could be because (when we’re together)¬†he is touching me almost all the time and (when we’re apart)¬†he never leaves me wondering if he actually likes me or not!¬†We are honest and forthcoming with each other and communicate very regularly about uncomfortable things: his girlfriend and living arrangements, his tax situation¬†(most recently), the fact that I will probably be roommates with Things #1 and #2 for quite some time yet… I expect we will continue to be transparent with each other, because that is our foundation.

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