Smitten with Him

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Loverman = Loserman

on November 25, 2014

Until my vehicles are completely fixed (or, until I find a different person to help me fix things I have already paid someone else for), I am going to have to continue communicating with “Loverman”.

Since he isn’t my lover or my man any more, I decided to change what I call him.

So, that prick has now officially been re-named:


If he decides to stop being such a mother-fucker, I might forgive him.


But he has a lot of work to do to make things up to me and I am not ready yet to even entertain the thought of giving him a chance.

9 responses to “Loverman = Loserman

  1. lolarocks says:

    Amen! I hope he realises what an utter clown he is. It’s definitely his loss.
    Keep smiling my friend

  2. Sounds like he is the one missing out, you’re going to be better off, hang in there:)

  3. Hysterical. Good for you being so strong!!!!

    • 🙂 Thanks, Sweetie. I’m just being strong here in my words. I am a blubbering mess in real life. If he called me and asked me to come back to him, I probably would. Part of the reason I got the tattoo was to prevent me from getting naked in front of him too soon (both literally and figuratively).

      I already texted him last night about the Ferguson thing – he has family in St. Louis. He responded. We talked for 45 minutes this morning, but only as friends — no pet names, no talking about sexy ‘stuff’ — it was an update.

      After being so involved with him for so long, it’s hard not to know what’s going on in his life. I think it’s strange for him, too, because he did quite a lot of talking. Like he missed me or something…

      I wish I had more will-power. I miss him SO much *sigh* but I am proud of how well I am doing. I didn’t Facebook stalk him all weekend! And last night I got the battery and alternator checked on Breezy all by myself — I didn’t even think about calling him!

      Baby steps.

  4. […] At first, I started writing an email to Mr. X because he has been my surrogate “Loverman” since right after Loverman became Loserman. […]

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